Russian and Ukrainian girls are different then American women. And American gentlemen who dream to meet a Russian or Ukrainian lady through a marriage service need to keep that in mind when writing letters. Russian girls online have been brought up in an absolutely another culture. So you should be ready for some specialties of her character and don’t be astonished or disappointed later. When writing letters to a FSU girlfriend, call her by her full name, e. G. “Dear Irina” or “Dear Svetlana”. It’s better not to use just “Hello” or something like “I’m looking for a nice lady. Please write back if you are the one” in your introduction letter. Chances to get an answer are low if you do so. A girl should feel that you are writing only to her alone. It’s necessary to send her nice pictures, one or two in your introduction e-mail. Try to find those where you are smiling. And if you have an opportunity it would be better to take studio pictures for this purpose. Never send a picture of your residence, auto and other wealth. Also don’t send pictures where you are with your fellows in a bar or with any girls even if they are only your friends. Be polite and friendly. It’s really important to show your regard to the woman by being attentive in your correspondence. And surely be open-hearted. Don’t hesitate to show your deep aims. Question her. If you speak only about yourself in your e-mails this won’t do you any good. Don’t forget about the mening of having a dialog and not a monologue. Question whether she loves to go to museums or bouling, whether she keeps a pet, if she dwells with her ralatives, if she can cook, if she likes her job, if she wants to have children, what country she would like to live in, what she likes and dislikes about her city and about her life in general. The themes you begin will give her the reason her write an answer to you. And don’t tell everything about your life in the first letter. Let Ukrainian brides ask questions also. Do not talk big about you wealth and don’t even try to impress her with your intelligence. If a girl is seriously searching for a husband she surely needs a dependable and family oriented, but that does not mean that she is after. A Russian lady simply wants a husband who is able to be a supporter, not a fat cat. By putting emphasis on your well-being you may attract “wrong” type of ladies. Write in simple language and check the spelling so your lady can easily get what you want to say. Ukrainian women are beautiful and intelligent. Well, the most of them are attractive and smart. And most of them have used to compliments about their looks. Mention that she is beautiful but put emphasis on her character, compliment her personality more than her appearance and she will appreciate it. Russian girls online are quite feminine and family oriented unlike American women. They wish to be cared about and feel themselves loved. If you let your Former Soviet Union girl see your love and attention she will answer you with much tenderness and hot love.